My daughter is 5 she has been to 4 shows. I think a lot of people will remember us from Saturday and Sunday at Hampton this year. We had a great time. The dead promoted family, and existed as family. Young children where always at shows. I'm poor, and its easier to be together. I feel like the scene is changing as it always has. I get a half and half vibe from people when i have Bella with me, alot of people see a phish show as something not for children. Its more about "there" experience. To an existent I understand, I can't get lost in the music with my 5 year old. When phish plays local if I can find a sitter I do, but phish to me is about everything true in life that society makes us believe otherwise, like you shouldn't smoke pot in front of your kid or expose her to this atmosphere. Let's not use these things as an excuse not to partake in communion as a family as we bring our life style to the next generations.